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Guest Guest
| Subject: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 3:16 am | |
| Ok, this story Is going to come completely out of the blue but whatever. As some of you may know, I go to an all-male school. Last year in this school there was this kid, let's call him cat-sperm because that's what he smelled like (don't ask me why I know what cat sperm smells like) anyways, he was gay. Keep in mind I have nothing against gay people. Long story short, he watched me change in the locker room to a creepy extent. I didn't think to report him at the time. Eventually he left me alone and that was that. But now, a year later, cat-sperm is back. He constantly touches me in the hallway and says he loves me, I'm soon to file a sexual harassment report but I doubt thAt will make much difference. What should I do? |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 4:18 am | |
| .-. I honestly thought you were indeed a girl. |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 4:18 am | |
| .-. I honestly thought you were indeed a girl. |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 4:30 am | |
| TucKiD approved way (not recommended) smack the bitch up |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 7:58 am | |
| I think you should just try and say you're not into that incase he's just playing a sick joke or something and, if he keeps wierding you out, tell the principal. It may seem wierd to explein, but a situation like this should be handled the same way as if a guy kept bugging a girl. |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 10:24 am | |
| Oh I planned to tell the principal. It's just that he will most likely persist, I'll talk to him, and if that doesn't work I'm using tuck's idea |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 1:57 pm | |
| Yay! Some has used my idea for once wohooooo! Please sign a waiver saying that I am not responsible for anything suspensions from the school please |
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Ꭶ☢Ѵʊℛև Honorary Staff
Posts : 3827 Join date : 2013-05-26 Location : Behind You
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 8:23 pm | |
| I had a friend once with a similair problem. If the authorities won't do anything, get a trusted (and preferably intimidating) friend to tell him to back off, or if you feel that would be to much of a sissy move, you tell him to back off and use your friend as a wingman to emphasize your point. ( in the situation I'm talking about, I was the wingman.) If that won't work, try and get in contact with his parents, or find another adult that actually will listen to you. Maybe he feels that you are just playing hard to get because you aren't being forceful enough. Avoid any and all contact. Jerk away when he comes near, or yell loudly for him to leave you alone so that others might take notice. |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 8:25 pm | |
| So basically, get angry. Got it! Thanks guys. |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 9:09 pm | |
| I'm really sorry for your situation, Con! I hope it all works out! >^< |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 13th 2014, 9:10 pm | |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 18th 2014, 1:03 am | |
| Tell the bitch off. XD
Well, seriously though. Do the right thing. Tell him to stop/ask why he's doing it. If he continues, tell a legal parent/guardian. |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 18th 2014, 9:39 am | |
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| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 18th 2014, 4:51 pm | |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 18th 2014, 7:17 pm | |
| i reported him however i couldn't talk to him because he hasn't been in school |
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Ace Honorary Staff
Posts : 3793 Join date : 2013-05-15 Age : 25
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 18th 2014, 7:32 pm | |
| Another thing you could do, is inconspicuously ague him on to do something a tad more serious -like trying to kiss your cheek or something- which will be considered a larger offense, and thus result in the principal or another authority taking your case more seriously. Though don't make it look like your leading him on, otherwise it isn't considered sexual harassment anymore. |
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Guest Guest
| Subject: Re: Sexual harassment February 18th 2014, 7:37 pm | |
| I'm not so sure about that, I called him cat sperm for a reason. Maybe just letting him continue for a while would do the job |
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